Algorithm of Suffering =  F(x) =   A + B + C + D + E   

Our breakup has the same pattern each time and our struggle to attain success every time meets the same fate. We feel trapped in relationship as each time, it reflects the same pattern. We end up reacting in spite of having wisdom not to do it. We blame our life, God, parents, situations, and other people and reconcile it as destiny. 

We turn to counsellors, astrologers, healers, past life therapists, and mentors to seek insights or sulk, cry or indulge to distract. We work hard to forget our past, but patterns bring it back with vengeance.    

Our life is programmed by lack, tendencies and patterns in the first 21 years. We spend the rest of our life managing the Lack and continue to remain in loop of suffering.   
 
Algorithm of Suffering:   

F(x) = A + B + C + D + E

A= Lack we develop in age 0-7

B= Tendency (Pravarti) - we develop to hide our Lack in age 7-14  

C= Pattern - We develop in age 14 to 21 as puberty brings powerful sexual energy.  

D= Symptoms (Every symptom carries the seeds of cure)  

E= An event which triggered the pattern  

Is there a way we can break the pattern? Can we be free from the clutches of our past?